What I've Learned From Joint Custody
Divorce has far-reaching consequences, especially if children are involved. I turned down that road in June of 2005 when I filed for legal separation from my husband of seven years; our divorce was final in February of 2006. Irreconcilable differences. That's divorce-speak for 'we bring out the worst in each other' or 'there's no chemistry' or 'we don't really like each other anymore' or 'we just can't do it anymore". No matter the reason a couple splits, it sucks. Starting over is hard. Really hard. You'll probably feel like flooding social media with anger-filled (perhaps wine-induced) rants about how something didn't go your way & how it is all your ex's fault because they don't have your "good" parenting skills. My advice: Get over yourself and STFU. If child custody needs to be established, then the process normally results in the mother being awarded full custody and designated as the chi...